Happy Father’s Day to all dads, father figures, soon-to-be dads and those hoping to become parents. Watching Jeff step into fatherhood has been one of the most beautiful parts of this journey. He wanted to be a dad from the very beginning, and seeing him embrace that role has been incredible.
It’s rare to meet someone so young who’s as excited about parenthood as you are—someone who, at 18, would happily brainstorm baby names and agree to big family plans. When we discussed unconventional paths to starting a family in college, he simply said, “I just want to be a dad, no matter how it happens.” Through the challenges we faced finding our way, he remained steady and supportive every step of the way.
I could go on about Jeff and his new role, but I thought it would be fun to let him share his perspective on becoming a father. You all seem to like him anyway, so here he is sharing his thoughts. We also teamed up with Pampers, which feels fitting since changing Arlo’s diaper has quickly become Jeff’s favorite task. (We use Pampers Swaddlers, size 1.) Most of the time I change Arlo and Jeff is right there beside me because he just can’t get enough of our baby—especially when Arlo is giggly on the changing table. Seeing Jeff fully embrace fatherhood has been more special than I ever imagined, and I remind myself every day not to take it for granted. Over to you, Jeff!
Good morning, SDIY fam! Writing a blog post is a first for me, but I already feel like I know and love you all, so here goes.
When I became a dad, I became a better version of myself. There’s a different kind of purpose and responsibility that comes with caring for a little person who looks to you for guidance, love, and yes, carefully chosen tiny outfits. I’ve always pictured dressing a son in miniature streetwear or a little suit, and now those small joys are real.
We don’t claim to know everything—most days feel like learning on the fly. Twice a day one of us still hops up to check that Arlo is safely sleeping in his bassinet. That said, some of my past experiences helped prepare me. Growing up, I worked as a camp counselor in New Jersey, responsible for groups of energetic five-year-olds. That early exposure to responsibility, chaos, and teamwork shaped me and eased my transition into parenthood.
I met Kelly when we were 18, and we’ve shared a love for parenthood for a long time. Now that we’ve been together for many years and have started our family, I feel like we complement each other in the ways that matter most.
I love our morning routine: unzipping Arlo’s swaddle, watching him stretch up to the ceiling, and seeing his big smile when we change his diaper. Those tiny moments—his bashful reactions in the mirror, walks with him against my chest, the soft smell of his head after a bath—make every day brighter. He’s so sweet and curious, and we feel incredibly lucky to have him.
I also love that he’ll grow up in a creative, colorful home. The vibrant, playful world Kelly and I have built professionally spills into our family life, and we’re excited about the influence that will have on his upbringing. But we don’t want to push him in any one direction. As long as he tries new things and treats others with kindness, we’ll consider that a success.
It’s only been a few months, yet my love for Arlo is beyond words. He’s surrounded by people who adore him and want what’s best for him. Right now he’s across the room, kicking and smiling at his play gym, unaware of the possibilities ahead. That future is what warms my heart most. Our lives were already fun, and having him here has made everything infinitely better. There are so many adventures ahead, little man.
So, how did I do? I’ll probably stick to creating content for the brand, but I appreciate you letting me share today. To all fathers—new and seasoned—Happy Father’s Day!
Happy Father’s Day to everyone, and especially to Jeff. He’s a dad at last and living his dream.
This post was created in partnership with Pampers. All thoughts and opinions are my own. Thank you for supporting the sponsors that help keep Studio DIY going.